The Next Generation

Brotherly love (not the Philly kind BH, sorry)

Today's thoughts are swirling around our next generation.  The above picture is just one reason that I have so much hope for those coming in behind us 40-somethings.  I want to explain why, but also propose a project that goes along with all I've been seeing and wondering.

So, first the photo!  This was taken after our son, Nathan's, lacrosse game.  They played the toughest team in the county and did a really good job.  Really good against them?  12-3 loss  Seriously!  Anyway, V immediately runs down to the field after.  He shares with Nate, "No cranky Nafe.  It's okay. It's only game. You okay?"  Nate turns his attention to his new bro and agrees that indeed it is okay.  They start to walk off - N's arm on V's shoulders.  They run into one of Nate's friends, who chats with V too.  V loves to be included  in Nate's social circle of guys - and the guys really seem to enjoy him.  This photo and everything in it speak of hope to me.  Maybe the next generation of adopted children will have their own intact though imperfect families.  Maybe the next generation of kids who have become brothers or sisters to adopted kids will see the need and adopt into their own families.  Maybe the friends of these young men and women will have the opportunity to experience the wonders of adoption and become open to it themselves.

On to the potential project....  Our second trip to Latvia is coming up soon - likely summer.  V and I are scheduled to return together to care for court and paperwork issues.  Bryan isn't required to go, and really doesn't have time off then as I can.  Here comes the project possibility!

What if... we multiply the impact of the above moment?  What if a new family member is joined by a brother in a place where he can bond even more?  A place that has been his home for 14 years, but where he hasn't had a family in almost a decade.

What if a brother sees and understands more of who his new sibling is and who and what he has left behind?  Will their worlds come together and spark something new that might change the lives of more than just those two?

What if the brother invites a few friends to join us?  What if we offer a few days of help to woman there who reaches out to kids their age who are pretty much alone?  Would all of their lives change?  They are just heading into adulthood and occupations.  The potential....

Bottom line:  right now this is an idea that I'm praying about.  There is interest from Nate and some of his friends.  We'd extend trip two to last about a week to get in as much experience as possible.  The friends would be responsible for their plane fare, but bringing Nate wasn't in our budget.  His job doesn't cover enough for the ticket either.  So, if you see the potential and want to support the project, please donate using the Paypal button to the right or email at pittcrew1@comcast.net for other options.  Probably need  $2,000 to cover him.  I'll let you know how things develop!